Between your reply I added the following:
When you enabled the heated seats (BCM-Configuration Change-Heated Seats-Front) you're correct, it saves it into the BCM but as you pointed out, this was already set. Your radio needs to receive this to display the icons I believe and you need to get past the radio (telematics) unit proxy failure.
My bad, I see from your posted photos what you meant about the Settings. The first thing is to clear up the proxy align failure. Until you get a clean proxy align, the missing settings or anything else may just be the result of it being new and hasn't been programmed from the BCU with your car's features yet. Is the radio the only module that fails?
How about ones like HVAC or Driver/Passenger Door module or Integrated Center Stack. Those are all on the secondary CANBUS network.